Questions for Miss Jay by Hannah Jay

Author:Hannah Jay
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub
Published: 2014-10-12T04:00:00+00:00

Boyfriend Alert

My boyfriend is getting suspicious. I have a very lucrative escorting business which I run from my apartment. Lots of regulars and great tips. I also have a wonderful boyfriend who I’ve been seeing for nearly a year. He thinks I am an interior designer – which I am but it is not my main income. I’ve been very careful but he is beginning to wonder why I have so many nights a week I can’t see him. What to do?

Ah, yes, the suspicious boyfriend. Always a tricky problem for an escort. Well, there are a few courses of action you could take.

Firstly, you could simply tell him the truth. Is that an option? You have known him for a year, so you must be the judge on this one. Would he be accepting of your escorting, or would it destroy your relationship? Since you describe him as “wonderful”, you obviously don’t want to lose him. However, a little sideline secret is not going to get any less hurtful the longer it goes on, and there is the ever-increasing risk that he is going to discover it on his own. Since trust is a large measure of any coupling, this deception might get harder for you to handle. (One thing to remember, there are men who will actually find your escorting a bit of a turn on. Is he one of them? You might be able to find out simply by bringing up escorting in general in conversation and see his reaction.)

So, secondly, if you decide you can’t tell him the truth and you want to continue escorting because it is lucrative, you could just carry on---ie. continue to lie about what you are really up to. Risky, but since you haven’t told me how you feel about the situation, a little soul-searching is in order on this score. Also, do you have a time-frame or a goal that you have set for your escorting business---you will continue until you reach a certain sum? or until your design career is stable and generating sufficient income? Or do you even have a plan? If you don’t get one. Fast.

Is money the sole motive for escorting? If so, and you feel your relationship is more important than the extra dollars, your third move could involve dropping the sideline business and concentrating on accelerating your interior design career. You would have to adapt to having less money initially, or find a way to replace it more legitimately (a night job; turn a hobby into a home-based business to supplement your wages). Your boyfriend would no longer have a reason to be suspicious. You might be even less available to him, but at least he would know where you were and what you were doing.

And in fourth place, because it is not a great alternative but it is a possibility, you could drop the boyfriend. Since you really like/love him, (and he continues to be wonderful), go for any of the above, not this one.

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